Let’s talk about underpants.

Posted by Naomi on Dec 13, 2012 in thinking out loud |

This week Anne Hathaway had a wardrobe malfunction (for want of a better phrase.) The paparazzi were there to capture it. Incase you managed to miss it, she was photographed getting out of a car in a tight fitting dress, without underpants, at the premier of Les Misérables.

The image went viral.

Anne Hathaway has since spoken about the incident. I love what she had to say;

It kind of made me sad on two accounts. One was that I was very sad that we live in an age when someone takes a picture of another person in a vulnerable moment and rather than delete it, and do the decent thing, sells it.

And I’m sorry that we live in a culture that commodifies sexuality of unwilling participants…

 

I have read articles on the incident. Some saying how well she handed the situation. Most, however, also go on to say it could have been avoided if she wore underpants. And this is where the articles lose me.

There is a tone of oh dear you silly girl, tisk. You really should have remembered to wear some underpants.

Once again, the focus is taken away from the photographer who took and sold the image, to the woman and what she did wrong. Which if you ask me is nothing.

Her Les Mis premier outfit is dramatic and tight fitting. I am fairly certain Hathaway is not the first or last woman to wear a tight dress without undergarments. I’ll be the first to admit I have.

Anne Hathaway has also been quoted as saying:

I was getting out of the car and my dress was so tight that I didn’t realise it until I saw all the photographers’ flashes. It was devastating. They saw everything. I might as well have lifted up my skirt for them.

 

But she did not lift up her skirt, she got out of the car in a tight dress in an awkward way.

It was devastating for her, but apparently that is of little consequence if someone can make a quick buck selling the images, or belittling her with patronising copy masquerading as (bad) humour. Article writers thought it witty to remind Hathaway to wear panties – a word I despise – or suggest she wears a number of different types of seamless or form fitting under garments to keep her otherwise flawless image intact. The we know better than she does mentality.

Just last week I saw form fitting underwear being sold in a department store that was without a gusset. Presumably so the wearer could go to the toilet without the need to extricate themselves from the tightness of control top, tummy sucking, thigh flattening underwear. There is was, hanging on the racks. If it is good enough for a department store to sell underwear without a gusset, it seems logical to me that it’s also good enough to wear no undergarments if one chooses. Without judgement. Without clear violations of privacy and a bit of good old decent respect for another human.

The question should not be why she did not wear underpants. The question should be why the image was not deleted. Why the image, clearly not taken with consent, is deemed news worthy. The question that should be asked is why, once again, a woman’s choice is questioned, and why, once again a woman’s body is not seen as her own.

 

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Simone
Dec 13, 2012 at 5:38 pm

Yeah, wot she said. Wholeheartedly agree.

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Rachel from Redcliffe Style
Dec 13, 2012 at 7:09 pm

Very well said!! Rachel xx
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Hannah
Dec 13, 2012 at 7:10 pm

Fortunately I did miss it, because I live the life of a media recluse, which if you want to think kind thoughts about human kind is a good move.
I really love how you’ve written about this incident.
The real issue is that we are happy to scandalise a woman’s body at a vulnerable moment.
That’s what I’m taking away.
ox

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Naomi Reply:

Exactly! What gives anyone the right to make scandal of a woman’s body? I like your media recluse status. I may join you there!

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Twitchy
Dec 13, 2012 at 7:13 pm

Although I do agree with you AND Anne, I still took a different approach to the same subject today. I say, the parasites will always be parasites. Why give them the opportunity to be? I love Anne Hathaway and am devastated for her- and at the same time- she is a Hollywood veteran and knows what kind of vile opportunists are out there. Also, she is hampered by the ilk of serial offenders such as Paris Hilton, Lindsay Lohan and Britney Spears, who seem not to give a shit about this kind of attention at all.
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Naomi Reply:

Whether or not other people in the spotlight care about wearing underpants or not remains to be seen. It would though seem Anne Hathaway did care, and I think she is still entitled to her privacy. I think it can be a slippery slope putting people into do or don’t care if they flash categories. I also think that does miss the point a little. Everyone should be entitled to respect and privacy. I’m not sure either Britney, Lindsay or Anne have been afforded that.

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Twitchy Reply:

To clarify, the last thing I’d ever wish to do is allude to victim blame. In researching this topic I found multiple pics of certain people but I don’t think this will ever happen to Anne Hathaway again. And while I do wholeheartedly agree with you, there’s still a *massive* disconnect between the moral issue and managing the practical reality.

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Janet
Dec 13, 2012 at 7:24 pm

It’s funny how the media keeps saying she “forgot” her underpants. Um hello??? How do you FORGET underpants???!

Also, more power to ya if you wanna go commando, but personally I think there’s a time and a place – and that time is when you aren’t strutting the red carpet, and the place is your own home!!!

There’s a reason nurses aren’t permitted to wear stay up pantihose (like long socks without the panties) – hygiene – just saying …
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Naomi Reply:

I don’t think she forgot her underpants. Like I said, I have on occasion gone out of the house sans underpants. It is a conscious choice. Her dress was floor length, and without an awkward getting out of the car moment, no one would have been any wiser.

For me the point isn’t even about the lack of undies, it’s about the fact media and photographers consider it acceptable to publish the images at all.

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Janet
Dec 13, 2012 at 8:41 pm

Yes, that’s true Naomi. Just like the poor old Duchess of Cambridge. It’s just not cricket.
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Mumabulous
Dec 13, 2012 at 8:51 pm

People will continue to publish this sort of thing as long as the public have an appetite to see it. Refuse to be drawn in. Don’t click on the links to these stories.

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Naomi Reply:

I am not often drawn in, but read a little of what she said in response to a question and loved how she handled it.
It is for this reason there are no links or images with this post. They are not necessary.

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Carli
Dec 13, 2012 at 10:19 pm

I agree with everything you’ve said. It is like the tired analogy of comparing leaving the keys in your car with rape. I’ve read tweets from people saying they’d be surprised if it wasn’t a publicity stunt. Do we have to be so jaded and why can’t we take a bit longer to think about the whole thing and start asking why it’s okay for people to not only take the pictures but then sell them?

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Naomi Reply:

I can be as jaded as the next person sometimes, but why people always assume the very worst? As for the photos, yes, I just do not know why anyone thinks it is OK to take, keep and sell photos like this. Ever.

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Claireyhewitt
Dec 13, 2012 at 10:31 pm

Also, imagine if the photographers just had the decency t allow her to get out of the car.

I understand celebrity types get the good and the bad and need to deal with both sides, but really, we want to see the dress, the look, the outfit, and that means standing up.

One again, the female just has to deal with it, and defend herself…bloody annoying.

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Naomi Reply:

Very annoying. And yes, imagine having the decency to let a person out of a car before photographing them.

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Meh it's a vagina
Dec 13, 2012 at 10:54 pm

Huh if you Choose not to draw the curtains then don’t get upset if someone looks in.

I see no Shame in going commando but don’t play the victim. It’s a vagina, not an alien invasion frankly we’ve all seen one, you make the choice you own the consequences

Frankly she should be more annoyed with those willing to pay for the photos. Her vagina is not a marketable commodity in its own right

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Naomi Reply:

There is no shame in going without underpants, but I do not see how this corresponds to anyone being entitled to see any part of her body she did not intend them to see.

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Rachel @ The Kids Are All Right
Dec 14, 2012 at 8:41 am

Hmm. An interesting perspective I hadn’t thought of. I think that’s an indication I lump all celebrities together, with their wardrobe malfunctions, with the paparazzi machine, and the audience that feeds it all. I’ve probably become a bit immune to it all. But of course she’s a human as well.

I do not understand why it’s interesting watching a celebrity get out of a car. I don’t understand why there isn’t a standard practice of having two or three people block the door area and let a person get out of a car and adjust themselves and get themselves physically and mentally ready before meeting the onslaught of photographers. That should be a minimum standard that everyone adheres to. Is that impossible, for some reason? Celebrities who read Under the Yardarm, can yo enlighten me?

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Vanessa
Dec 23, 2012 at 9:30 am

I did hear about this but hadn’t heard what she had said. Kudos to her for making intelligent comments about the situation.
As a photographer myself, I just don’t see how paparazzi can be considered a photographer. There’s no art or ethics to them.
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